Okay, well we've found some problems then, 5-volt Ref 1 (Pin 37 Grey wire is that Map sensor Reference voltage) so it's not making it from the ECM to the map sensor,
5-volt Ref 1 (pin 35 is the Reference voltage for the Oil Pressure Sensor.
Pins 40 and 41 may be a 5-volt Ref shared internally inside the ECM.
Pins 43 and 44 I'm not super worried about your reading battery voltage there, it just be might a little low because of the key being on during testing.
So, first thing, with the key off, unplug the oil pressure sensor and MAP sensor let's see if either one of them is pulling the Reference voltage down, any sensor that's uses a 5-volt Ref can short out and pull the whole circuit to ground.
1st diagram is the Oil Pressure sensor it looks like it's under the throttle body, unplug that and the MAP sensor, turn the key back on and see if you have 5 volts at both sensors and at the ECM pins 37 and 35, they may be a shared Ref voltage inside the ECM as well. If the 5 volts come back, turn the key off, and plug one sensor back in at a time and see which one is shorted out, because the 5 volts will disappear again.
Also, just FYI, when a sensor shorts out and pulls the circuit down, it can disable the ECM completely.
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Monday, February 14th, 2022 AT 1:29 PM