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If it will start for a couple seconds with starting fluid (warm) and stall, then it is a fuel related issue. Have you checked fuel pressure when the vehicle won't run?
Let me know. Larry, I'll try my best to help. We need to eliminate the simple things first. Since it starts for a couple seconds with starting fluid, then it't not getting fuel. Now, this could be related to a sensor, bad fuel pump relay, simply a plugged fuel filter, the fuel pump, or an issue with the injectors. To know where we should start troubleshooting, we first need to know what the fuel pressure is when it won't start.
If you look at the attached pictures, they discuss a crank/no start and specific tests for your vehicle. Fuel pressure testing is included. Here are the directions which correlate with the testing. Note that the test follow a flow chart, so check one thing at a time. Also, this will need to be done when the engine won't start. I'm adding this first because it includes fuel pressure testing and general other checks.
Let me know what you find with the fuel pressure or if you have other questions, let me know.
Joe
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Thursday, May 30th, 2019 AT 7:15 PM