Spotlight/auxiliary/off road lights

For your information: I am using a 5-pin relay.

I'll get straight to the point. I wired my auxiliary lights using a relay like you are supposed to.
I always put the "trigger" wire for the relay to the high beams. This is to have my auxiliary lights come on when I turn on the high beams.

The problem is that when I wired it this way on the Mazda, the auxiliary lights stay on when the high beams are off?

In short:

1. Relay wired to high beam headlights.

2. Auxiliary lights wired to relay(everything grounded correctly of course).

3. When I turn on my high beams my Auxiliary lights turn off.

4. When I turn off my high beams the auxiliary lights come on.

Car listed above is a diesel.