Where can I get a true owner's manual?

1)I have so many questions it's hard to sort it out.
2) If I read the current manual correctly it appears if I am standing next to my car door anybody can walk up on the other side and open any door. Even though I just locked it. Safety concern here.
3)My rear door(?) Closes fine. Feels if it is securely closed but when I first go to drive off my little screen goes nuts. Looks like a beetle flapping it's wings. 92 % of the time. More in cold weather. I have to go back open and close and everything is good. Sensor? My mechanic couldn't find anything wrong. Anything I could point him towards?
4) back to number 1 how do I know what 'kind' of 4 wheel drive do I have.
5) a good owners manual should help. How do I turn the fan ALL the way off.
6) It tells me to be a good driver and wants me to agree. Not. Can I get rid of the annoying thing?
I love this thing but I know it will not hold up like my old ones. I have discussed both of them with you. Beyond basic maintenance is there anything I can do to preserve it?
7) It has a little star shaped nick on the lower front bumper area. In/on the plastic. How do I get this fixed?
8) How delicate is the paint. I think I put a nick in it just loading groceries. It wasn't there when I bought it.
I have more questions, but I'll take a break here and read the new owners manual that you suggest. Thank you, Barbara.