The BCM beside the fuse box not working properly?

Okay, I have the truck listed above 1500 SLT model. Well, my headlight started going out and I tried a bunch of different bulbs, and it wasn't the bulb. I found out it was the module beside the fuse box that is silver. I believe it is called a BCM body control module. Anyways the pins on it are getting worn out and not making much contact. This causes my dim lights to work but my fog lights won't work neither will the high beams, turn signals, brake lights or the windshield wipers. Okay, well I bend the tab on the far upper right if you're facing the fuse box to make connection with the PIN and I get all of those lights to work for about a half hour. I will get it all put together they will work for a good half hour. I'll let it sit and then nothing this has happened to me three times in a row. I even disconnected the battery on the third time as I did it just in case there was some kind of a safety or security issue that it had to clear. I am at lost with this. I don't know if I need to get a new fuse box if that will even work or not? Please guide me in any direction if possible. I've been trying to make cheap solutions for it rather than taking it into a Dodge dealership because I know what they will charge. Thanks for your time and happy holidays.