Hello,
The only way for coolant and oil to commingle is either a blown head gasket between where a coolant and an oil port are going from the block to the cylinder head or a crack in either the cylinder head or the engine block. Is it possible that the flush didn't knock all of the scale and yuck out of the cooling system? You might want to try another flush, which is very easy for a DIYer to do and here is a link below explaining how to do it:
https://www.2carpros.com/articles/coolant-flush-and-refill-all-cars
If you decide to go with a head gasket sealant, the only one that I would recommend would be Blue Devil, which you can pick up at any auto parts store. It costs a little more than the other brands, but has a much higher success rate if you follow the directions to a "T". Please get back to us with what you decide to do and how everything turns out.
Thanks,
Alex
2CarPros
Sunday, February 9th, 2020 AT 12:09 PM