That engine is going to be a buzzy little beast at 3K. But it does not produce peak torque until over 4,000 rpm. I would say 3,000 at 75 mph is probably about right.
Noise wise, you could have a small exhaust leak or a heat shield that rattles or a number of other things. If it concerns you take it to a shop and have them take a listen. As for shifting, go out on the highway and slowly accelerate and count the shifts. That is a 4 speed trans so you should hear/feel 4 "shifts" 1-2, 2-3, 3-4, 4th converter lock up. I suspect it's fine though.
GM extended the warranty on that transmission to 10 years 120,000 miles because of the shifter cable issues. Then recalled them to replace the cable.
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Thursday, March 30th, 2017 AT 1:56 AM