Starter Replacement?

Thanks for your reply
I have done all that and the starter is loose and just laying in there. I cant bring it up because of the exhaust manifold, or down because it wont go through the available space. I have turned it every which way, but it just doesnt want to come out. There is a crossmember in the way underneath, but I am reluctant to unbolt it with me under the truck. Any ideas?

The crossmember needs to come out. There are 3 bolts on either end. Ive had mine out a few times. Bolts can be accessed with a socket and 6 inch extension inside frame on either side. Ive had mine out on my 86 4wd more than once. Be sure to support the trans with a jack if necessary.

Lama

Or simply remove the sameside motor mount. And use a wooden block between your Jack and oil pan. Have a second person slowly Jack the motor up while you maneuver the starter out. You can do this by yourself but better and safer with a second hand!