Upper Ball Joint (Spinning)

Hi I posted another post with same problem but the tie rod end, but got that to not to spin, but now im haveing truble with the upper ball joint,

of tried everythink, Graping it with muti grips jacking the car up from near the front suspension is to put tention on it, but it still spins,

And if you want to no why I took it off because I lowerd my car on super lows

What can I do?

Here is a picture?