There are actually two of them in the circuit. Both are in the under-hood fuse box. Searches for their locations were fruitless at first, and no replacements are listed as available. That suggests they are inside the sealed computer module, however, I did find this drawing that shows the "starter control relay".
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Saturday, May 26th, 2018 AT 8:23 PM