Engine and starter will not turn over?

Hi,

I'm hoping someone can help me get this car started, please!
Instead of charging the battery overnight using trickle charge 4 amp
I used the quick engine start on my charger and I was able to start the car.
I understand this is not great for a battery to use this high amp instant start setting right?
So, one day I turned the key and nothing.
The starter will not turn.
I replace the battery and I get same result turn the key and nothing.
Can you help me identify if it possibly is the starter relay or fuse as opposed to the starter?
Like where is the starter relay?
I looked at the fuse box under the passenger side and I saw six or more relays, but the owner's manual doesn't tell me which one is a starter relay, and the fuses look okay. I pulled some and they look like they're not burnt course I should be testing with a multimeter which I can do.
I tried the old trick where you tap the starter with a hammer but that did not help. Any
Ideas to help me I would sure appreciate it!

Thanks!