Can I get instructions on how to remove the engine?

Yep, you will need to remove the hood, radiator and the transmission, here are the instructions to remove the engine and everything else that needs to be done to get the engine out of the car. Disconnect the battery before Check out the images (below). Let us know if you need anything else.

I removed torque converter bolts and all the above, can't find the starter, is it under the intake like most of these BMWs?

I am trying to remove the intake manifold but the computer underneath has many connectors. Can you see if there are instructions on how to remove it? Can't seem to find a way. I removed couple of the big connectors, but the smaller ones are hard to remove.

It looks like the starter motor is under a cover, check out the images (below). Please let us know what happens.

I found it under the intake. No, the one with the cover is for the n57 which is a diesel motor.

Good job, let me know if you need anything else.