Dash and tail lights not working?

I checked the taillight relay and it is good. I checked all grounds and they look good.
My clock is working fine so the circuit must be good. I checked and tested the light fuses under the hood fuse box and everything checks out.

When I connected my test light to this wire red with green stripe all the dash, taillights and climate control lights came on but it was like they stayed direct meaning it was as if they were getting direct power because they stayed on even with the key off the ignition and light switch off. If I had the wiring diagram for this plug maybe I could get somewhere.

No thats the connector to the passengers side multiplex unit. Also the plug to the passengers side fuse box has no power at none of the wires.

On the taillight relay itself or on the drivers multiplex plug?

I jumped the red/green with the red/black on the taillight relay plug and the lights did come on, but I turn the light switch on and off and the lights stay on even with the key out of the ignition and light switch on the off position. Then when I un-jump the connection they turn off and do not work anymore. Here are the two wires I jumped on the taillight relay plug!

I have no clue what wires I have to check to see if the bulbs are grounded or not and or what wires are power?

I think that red and black wire is a ground and the red and green is power. Correct me if im wrong! I hooked the multimeter to both red and green wires also the red and yellow wire and got 10 volts my batties need charge and I did a continuity test on the red and black wire (red probe on the red and black wire and black probe on ground wire) and it went beep and marked 000.

No it does not. The red and green has power. I checked the taillight plugs for power as well and nothing.

When I check for voltage at the red and black wire nothing happened. I even hooked up my test light just for a little reassurance and nothing.

Red and green is power or am I reading the diagram wrong. I highlighted the wires on the diagram below that are hot at all times. Does that not make it a power wire? Also, I checked the relay and it was good, I even replaced it with a new one to be 1000% sure. If the red and green is power then the relay is getting power to it.

Also, does the 1998-2002 Accord Coupe exterior lighting circuit schematic differ from that of the 1998-2002 Accord Sedan four door or is it the same thing?

Yes they did come on.