Clutch control solenoid replacement procedures needed

I am actually still having trouble getting the solenoid valve connector off, or maybe I am just reading the schematic incorrectly. Could I impose further?

I am referring to the image below at left that is referred to by the same name, enlarged at right.
Thanks again!

Respectful,
Marcus Carter

I can see your difficulty, however I have been able to get the object in question off and the solenoid valve off and replaced. My last job will be to reassemble all of these pieces, refill with new fluid and see how she runs. (Any other precautions that you may have about that process may come in handy, just saying, lol) I can refill it with gasoline, right?
Just kidding, poking a little fun and how tolerant you have been with all my naivety. You honestly have been great, and I know that I couldn't've been able to get this done without all your help.
Because of your kindness I will be able to keep my wife from walking to and from work. I will never be able to return such a kindness, but, I can promise to be open to helping others more in ways that I am capable.
This is how her feet looked last night, and I stayed up until 3:00 am working on it until I cried myself to sleep.
Thank you so much,
Forever indebted.

And you as well.
Have a great day!
Humbled and grateful,
Marcus Carter

Hello, Joe! I apologize, I have been meaning to send you a note about my amazing accomplishment (fixing my first transmission) and attach pictures of my glorious adventures in auto repair, Â but, alas, I cannot; I threw my back out and then I learned that my prescriptions have run out and I missed my monthly appointment with my pain specialist wherein which he determines that I am not a junkie trying to get high on my medication(s) and continues my supply, lol. I have four (4) ruptured disks in my spine all in a row with pinched nerves (3 of them in a row) in between them, but at least I have my job to keep me busy (14-16 hours/days).

So, I have to wait until he gets back from vacation (during COVID no less) and I can't get anyone to call-in my refill(s) for fourteen (14) days. So, I am hopeful that I can get it reassembled this weekend, since I am off work and I should be alright since I live in a "recreational" state (NM) and I have some ability to self-medicate, lol.

I will try to keep you posted on my progress. I consider myself quite lucky for having met you, Joe. Thanks again for all your help and support! I am very hopeful that there are more people like you in this world and maybe I am just having bad luck with meeting them. I will forever endeavor to be similar, and I really hope that you know how great you are, because not telling you how great you are could only be described as lacking.

Have a great day, Joe. And thanks again for letting me be a part of it!

Appreciative,
Marcus Carter

Today's the day, I've decided. I will keep you posted.

I got it all put back together with new fluid, but the problem persists. I am going to get it back on the computer and see if I get another code.

Yes sir.

O'Reilly's second answer:
Code: P0735 permanent

Gear 5 incorrect ratio

Hi, Joe!

I am actually going to switch the new solenoid I just put in with the one that O'Reilly said. I will check these factors first.
I do not know how, or if, I could check the transmission fluid in this model. Visual inspection of the wiring harness showed no signs of damage. Also unsure of how to measure the oil pressure on each solenoid, any ideas? I will visually check each solenoid and let you know.

Thanks again for all your help and support!
Marcus