Radiator fans don't come on and engine overheats?

I've checked the fuses, and all 3 fan relays check good. The coolant temp sensor was replaced, so its new. I'm kinda stuck, don't know anything about these Japanese cars. The only fan that comes on with the a/c is the blower. I bypassed the fan relays and can make both fans come on. However the relays check good. I've got good voltage to the coil side of all three relays, however there is no ground. So I swapped out the ECM with a used one my buddy had and everything works again :) ya. Thanks for your help and diagrams with guides you guys are the best.

Hi, I am not an expert but know a little, everything started when my A/C was not cooling enough. So I noticed that both fan were barely moving I could stopped them with my finger. So with car on I disconnect the coolant sensor and both fan kicked in at high speed right away like when car is overheating. Check system and was a little low on Freon had small leak at evaporator. So I replaced evaporator, drier, coolant sensor. Vacuum system added a little oil and recharged it (134a) I got cold air but fans did not move low side was at 35 and high side was going higher and higher so I shut off A/C, even though I was getting power to fans I replaced both of them with new ones. Also replaced trinary high pressure switch vacuumed again recharged and same thing. Could the problem be the ECM? Please help me.
Thanks in advance.

Hi Ken I will be away for about 10 days, I will get back to you then. Thanks for your help.

Hi Ken, I've try what you told me tested all a/c and fans relay they all have power, have continuity on wiring also check voltage at coolant sensor (getting 4.8v just with ignition key on)which is normal, put everything together turn a/c on and bingo fans came on too, shut it off and let it cool off for about 2 hours and fans did NOT came on I thought it was cause engine was cold so suspected a defective coolant sensor(previously replaced with a new one) decided to check it again the next day, Next day turn a//c on and fans started to work right away in other words I have an intermitting problem now, also I wiggled wiring just in case no difference, please help I Am more confuse now. Sorry for this loooong reply. Thanks again.

Sorry I forgot could it be the Thermal controller that is attached to evaporator? I know that it controls temp. On the evaporator but what other function it has. Thanks again.