No crank, no OBD2 contact

Car will not start, no click, no crank, no fuel pump, no spark on any cylinder, no contact in OBD2 20 pin, my Foxwell diagnose thingy works fine on my 3 series. So it's definitely the 528i having the problem.

i can also add that the car has two 95ah AGM batteries and they are sitting at 12.6 volts, and that central locking and all the central lights and radio works as it should, but when I turn the key nothing. Also read that when the key is in the ignition and I open the door it should beep at me, not the same sound as if I leave the key in the ignition With the lights on, that works fine, but no ding ding sound. The EWS should be coded out from the ECU, and I also tried shorting the starter so it cranks, but the fuel pump does nothing, zero pressure at the valve in front of the engine, and no spark on any of the 6 cylinder.