Welcome back:
It could be fuel related. It's interesting that the exhaust tips have gotten black fast. Often times, black residue or smoke indicates a rich fuel mixture. However, that should set the check engine light.
The engine should not be near 4,000 RPM's at the speeds you mentioned. Does it seem to be shifting normally? At 65 mph, I would suspect them to be around 2000 to 2500.
I don't know if you are interested in checking the fuel pressure, but here is a link that explains how in general it's done. You will need a fuel pressure gauge, but most parts stores will lend or rent one to you.
https://www.2carpros.com/articles/how-to-check-fuel-system-pressure-and-regulator
Here are the specific directions, pressure specs, and general trouble shooting tips for your vehicle. The pictures correlate with the directions.
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Fuel Pressure Test
1. Release the residual pressure in fuel line .
CAUTION:
When removing the fuel pump relay, a Diagnostic Trouble Code (DTC) may occur. Delete the code with the GDS after completion of "Release Residual Pressure in Fuel Line" work.
2. Install the Special Service Tool (SST).
(1)Disconnect the fuel feed tube from the delivery pipe.
CAUTION:
There may be some residual pressure even after "Release Residual Pressure in Fuel Line" work, so cover the hose connection with a shop towel to prevent residual fuel from spilling out before disconnecting any fuel connection.
(2)Install the special service tool for measuring the fuel pressure in between the fuel feed tube and the fuel delivery pipe .
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3. Inspect fuel leakage on connections among the fuel feed tube, the delivery pipe, and the SST components with IG ON.
4. Measure Fuel Pressure.
(1)Start the engine and measure the fuel pressure at idle.
Fuel Pressure:
480 - 500 kPa (4.9 - 5.1 kgf/cm2, 69.6 - 72.5 psi)
NOTE:
If the fuel pressure differs from the standard value, repair or replace the related part .
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(2)Stop the engine, and then check for the change in the fuel pressure gauge reading.
Standard Value:The gauge reading should hold for about 5 minutes after the engine stops
NOTE:
If the gauge reading should not be held, repair or replace the related part .
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(3)Turn the ignition switch OFF.
5. Release the residual pressure in fuel line .
6. Test End
(1)Remove the Special Service Tool (SST) from the fuel feed tube and the delivery pipe.
(2)Connect the fuel feed tube and the delivery pipe.
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Let me know if this helps. Also, let me know if the RPM's were as high on the way home for you and if the transmission seems to be shifting through all the gears.
Take care,
Joe
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Saturday, June 8th, 2019 AT 8:25 PM