Ok, I don't know if you can or are willing to try...
So....
Here is what can be done to see what may be causing the hard shifting from Park to Reverse/Drive...
In the Picture below the area circle is the Transmission Range Switch and Cable. It is located under the hood on top of the transmission, it may be hard to see if there is a lot of stuff over top of it.
What you will need to do is get to so you can see it good, the Smaller Circle, to see how it cable comes off. I believe it just pops up and off but not sure haven't worked on them to much. If you cannot figure out how it comes off and you are able to take a picture or 2 and post them here....
If you do get it off go ahead and try shifting from park to reverse and drive. If it still shifts hard then you have a problem either in the steering colunm or a bad shift cable.
If shifts normally then you have a problem in the transmission and you will need to take it to a transmission shop.
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Friday, October 9th, 2009 AT 8:46 PM