The "WOW!" was because of how bad it was running. The hot exhaust can be caused by keeping it running on carb cleaner. As far as the rest, I could tell by your shadow in the video, you're a woman. My hat is off to you. You really seem to know what you're doing, and you're not afraid to try. Unless you're a man wearing a dress...
As far as the fuel pressure, here is a how to for checking.
https://www.2carpros.com/how_to/how_to_check_fuel_pressure.htm
I'm not permitted to mention the names of parts stores, but most nationally recognized parts stores will have them.
Let me know what you find.
Joe
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Monday, August 23rd, 2010 AT 10:28 PM