It sounds like to torque converter is coming apart, do to the fact that when you "put the stick back to 4 which is sport mode it doesnt do that at all" which is disengaging the lockup torque converter. Or you may have a bad solenoid, you will need to take it to a transmission shop to have it diagnosed the transmissions are very complicated and I don't think you have the special tools.
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Thursday, February 11th, 2010 AT 8:24 PM