Alarm auto arm - HELP

Hey,

i have just installed a generic car alarm. They only problem is that it auto arms itself when I am driving.

I have refered to the manual and it suggests I connect a yellow wire (from the device) to a relay.

there are 4 wires on the relay.

yellow - conencts back to the device
green - connects to the ACC of the key barrell
green/white - connects to "start" of the key barrell
blue - connects to the coil +

now I havnt tried to connect it all toether, as I dont have time.

i need to "trick" the device so that I can stop it arming itself when I am driving.

at the moment it thinks that no one is driving

thanks

nclguy