Okay. The way this works is the relay get power from terminal 85 which is from the ECM 2 fuse. We should check this fuse but I am sure it is fine since you didn't mention a check engine light and the vehicle seems to operate fine other then this.
The ECM grounds the coil in the relay through terminal 86 which closes the contact on terminal 30, to engage the clutch through terminal 87.
So if you jump power from 30 to 87 and it works and you have battery power at 85 (proving out the ECM 2 fuse) and with the relay out you have voltage at 86, that leaves the relay and the ECM itself.
If the relay has been replaced and the new one tested ok, then that leaves the ECM. This could be the ECM has failed or the ECM is just not grounding the relay because it is getting a signal from the pressure sensor that is not accurate so it thinks the pressure is too high.
These sensors are pretty cheap if you just want to replace it. If you want to test it, you need to monitor voltage on all three wires. Just back probe the sensor with it plugged in and AC on and let me know what you have on each wire.
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Saturday, May 30th, 2020 AT 6:01 PM