Diagram on how to wire the starter?

No power to starter solenoide

Tried to crank truck over and was making a click sound my dad told me it was the solenoid. Bought a napa solenoid, but it wasnt a direct replacement it came with the I stud original only came with M B and S, anyways hooked up new solenoid and got no power for nothing so I figured I had it hooked up backwards, so I switched places with the M and B and got power and truck started up problem and question is that the starter wasnt disengaging when truck was running so turned off ignition and unhooked the S terminal and battery to turn it off. Did that a few more times and new solenoid is done for and will not even kick truck over just the same clicking sound just like before. So can anyone explain why that was happening my truck has four wires that hook up all together 1. The m and b terminal wires, 2. Altenator wire 3. The starter wire.4. Headlight and other electrical wire. Please some help I tried to put as much detail into this. ( On stock solenoid all of the wires listed 2-4 hooked up to b terminal and thats what I hooked up to napa solenoid but difference was the starter wouldnt disengage.)

So the the red wire needs to be hooked up elsewhere because I have two seperate yellow wires and just 1 red one with a fuse hooked with the red wire. (The fourth would be the plug wire witch goes to the s terminal.)On the orginal solenoid all wires where attached to the same post(B), on napa solenoid I did same thing but for some reason the main started wouldnt disengage.

Yes mine is a fender mounted solenoid the oringinal came with only three terminals M, B, S, the main battery wire goes to M+B and the starter plug wire goes to S terminal. The other 3wires lay over B terminal witch if im right is on the right side of solenoid saying S terminal is north, yeah that was what I was going to do is put original back on and see if it still makes clicking noises again, (does the sequence of the wires order have anything to do with it, lets say if I didnt put the wires in direct order over the B terminal saying red was on top then the yellow then other yellow would that have anything to do with it?)

That solenoid is similar to my stock one but has less wires I can see your pic has three wires excluding the red plug wire, my wires are different from these maybe I will be able to get a picture and show you then things will make more sense.

Here is the pic hopefully it helps

At first the pair were reversed from what you can see on the pic now, the difference was that I was getting no power the other way around so I put them to what you see in picture now and got display lights to come on and headlights + ignition to crank over, so if I try again I want to make sure there is no spark when wires touch large studs?

Truck will run if you push it off and pop the clutch. Cannot find a loose ground. Battery light is still on after replacing alternator. Voltage is 11.6 volts with truck running. After replacing all of these parts do not know what to do next.

The starter stays engaged after the key is turned off had to remove the battery cable to stop it how do I fix this? I took the starter out no wire damage or any mechanical issues that I can see. Never had any starter or ignition problems before this please help!

Thank u now I'm trying to find that relay any clue where it is?